Ok, I didn’t read the other repliesIm tood*agitated by your T. My T and I tell eachother we love each other even though we are both married. I am praying your T just had an oops moment. They missed a really important opportunity in your healing and I’m sorry that they screwed up. My T would feel self conscious because he is super humble BUT if he were not having a horrible day professionally he would have asked... and I would have told him and we would have talked about it in a way that furthered my healing. Ugh. That’s what therapy is about. IMO your T blew it big time!
Oh, and nothing to be embarrassed about. I love my T dearly and he knows it.