I'm so sorry that your T reacted that way I'd have felt much the same as you. But please know that his reaction is about him and nothing to do with you and your heartfelt feelings, which he could have treated with compassion and respect regardless of his own. It sounds like he might find deep feelings hard to cope with from a client but that's his issue and doesn't mean there's anything wrong with you. On the contrary, everything is RIGHT with you that you feel so much! My T says there are many forms of love, not just romantic or sexual or familial, and love in therapy can be a very real and unique experience due to the emotionally intimate nature of the work. Many therapists work with love, it's the essence of the therapy. It's not always related to transference stuff, especially if the T is the more open kind, as mine is.

It would probably be hard but, if you can, try telling him how his reaction left you feeling when he returns. Maybe he will have reflected on it after a break and be in a better place to discuss it all with you. If not, maybe it's more important for him to know how upset you are. Anyone would be, you're not strange for feeling bad. It's horrible to tell anyone you love them and just be stared at in response. I hope he was having an 'off' moment and will be much more compassionate when you next see him.