ok yeah you really dont have anything to worry about i understand what are going through and yeah as time goes by the more nervouse people get and as for whole formal thing of this program yeah most programs are like that but dont worry cuz the people they hook you up with usually are laid back it just the company liked to make it sound like important like ok we have a program called big brothers big sisters well any way when i first got signed up they should all rules and such but after that it all relaxed i got paired witj a really nice person we did alot together he has worked with me and my family for years now but yeah it is really not tht bad most programs are like this