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JBear34
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Default Sep 05, 2020 at 03:57 PM
 
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Originally Posted by Lonelyinmyheart View Post
From your other thread it seems as though you'd realised your feelings are to do with what's missing in your own life and they're being projected onto your therapist? Are you still discussing all this with her? Unfortunately feelings rarely disappear overnight so if you're hoping for a quick fix to make them go away that probably won't happen. The only way through is to keep talking about your feelings and addressing what is missing from your life that is causing you to feel this way. Feelings often need to be accepted before they will go away so trying to get rid of them very rarely works. You're feeling this way for a reason, so as disconcerting as it may be, the best way forward is to go into them and see them for what they are.
I am talking to my therapist about this and it is helpful. My romantic feelings toward her are slowly fading as I work harder with my wife on our marriage.
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