I have had ONE friend for about 10 years. She is always trying to intimate that we are friends when I am the one stating we are really friendly co workers. I say this because it isn't really true that we are friends, i mean we don't do things outside of work. She did come to my parents wakes and such. I have been there for phone calls at 2 Am etc for her.

So when I had a positive fit test and needed a colonoscopy, I had a choice, I could call a service OR call her.

So I gave her an e-mail saying I needed a personal favor and she called me instantly. And I asked if she would drive me to the appointment and home. The only hitch is that the appointment is early she will have to be up early (5:30) to get here.

She said yes and then noted she could just stay over. But I told her that wouldn't work because the night before I have to get up at 2 am to take the prep and there is no way she wouldn't be disturbed.

Then she started souring. She told me she was very busy at work and she would think about it later. I don't know if that was a refusal or she would just think about the particulars later. So here is the weekend... 2 days before, 1 day before I have to start taking the prep... I haven't heard from her. At all. There is enough to worry about in this situation. She doesn't know where I live (I moved recently) and so she has to find out where I am. I cannot take the prep and have her cancel at the last moment with a strained excuse. But her lack of interest makes me concerned she is going to do exactly that. I would call her but if I do and she does intend on showing up she will probably be mad.

I am already angry about this.. but I know that if she flakes on me not only will our relationship be completely over... but I will be even more angry and bitter about co workers. Right now I am pretty tired of co workers disappointing me / stabbing me in the back, but, this will really do it. I am already angry that i have had to worry about it.