Thanks for sharing this. In our household, my wife pretty-much makes all of the important decisions. (And she's good at it!) With regard to the few small decisions I do make, I tend to be a last-minute sort of decision maker. My tendency is to wait until the decision finally has to be made & then I just pick whatever sounds best to me at the moment. Perhaps some of what's going on with you is a lack of self-confidence with a bit of procrastination thrown in for good measure? I don't know. Perhaps other PC members will yet come along with some better insights.