Thanks for the confirmation, divine. I never really talked about it at the time, guess it didn’t really register with me until recently. Been reading about other people’s experiences and some of it was recognisable to me, coming to realise I dodged a bullet, although I wished I’d felt different at the time because I hated that I’d hurt him by splitting. I tried staying friends afterwards but it was a silly no hard feelings type thing on my part, felt startled when he started conversations on Facebook messenger with me. It was weird.