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Old Sep 07, 2020, 02:21 PM
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Originally Posted by Soupe du jour View Post
Wildflowerchild, you go girl! Definitely do it your way. My mother was always pressured to do things other people's way and forced to invite her brother, who NEVER reciprocated. Please don't let anyone pressure you into anything you don't want, when you host.

I'm sorry to read about your grandpa. If this is of any consolation, my grandmother had several mini strokes over the last 10 years of her life, and recovered well from all of them. I hope your grandpa recovers well and quickly.
Yeah unfortunately this was a pretty substantial stroke and he is already in late stage dementia. He’s refusing to eat/drink/take meds. My grandma is arranging hospice care through the nursing home tomorrow. My mom said grandma talked to his dr today and she was very upset by what they said, but my mom didn’t go into detail. It’s not feasible to bring him home so unfortunately I will not be able to visit him before he goes.

My mom actually asked me if I was sure I wanted her to call me if it happens during the day. I dint get where she’s coming from. If something happened to me during the day and I didn’t tell her, she’d be very upset.
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