Yeah unfortunately this was a pretty substantial stroke and he is already in late stage dementia. He’s refusing to eat/drink/take meds. My grandma is arranging hospice care through the nursing home tomorrow. My mom said grandma talked to his dr today and she was very upset by what they said, but my mom didn’t go into detail. It’s not feasible to bring him home so unfortunately I will not be able to visit him before he goes.

My mom actually asked me if I was sure I wanted her to call me if it happens during the day. I dint get where she’s coming from. If something happened to me during the day and I didn’t tell her, she’d be very upset.