I'm sorry you went through this, RoxanneToto. Wanted to let you know that I understand that feeling of not doing anything at the time out of psychological state, just so tired and upside down in a sense. I know at least one book on abuse calls it FOG (fear, obligation and guilt). Can you relate to that? I remember just being exhausted of it all and saw no point to it almost(!) I find it shocking now, but it was all tied up with the mental state I'd been conditioned to at that point. Ugh. If you are beating yourself up about it (?), don't.

I hope you are getting a chance to bolster your self-esteem and re-discover YOU. I don't know if you're finding the need of that (but I sure did).

Are you all rid of him now?