I’ve been holding to thoughts for a long time of something that has bothered me for years and I’m finding myself almost bursting wanting to vent somewhere about my identity. You guys are friends. This forum is pretty anonymous.

I follow groups online about gender issues and I’ve been honest with them and they totally understand but I feel like I want to spread out. I’m not prepared to be open with my family or with Facebook or anything.

I’ve always been confused about my gender identity and I’ve come to realize I don’t feel like any one gender. So I’m finding myself leaning towards non-binary. I’m still me. I’m still fairly femme and I still go by my same name and pronouns so it’s like nothing has changed but I don’t really identify as a woman or a man.

Also I don’t feel that I feel sexual attraction and find myself identifying as asexual.

So there. I feel you folks are pretty understanding and open and not judgmental so I feel pretty safe.

Just like... if you know me on Facebook or Instagram please don’t say anything. Like I said I haven’t said anything on there about this.

I’m going to hide now lmao.