My dad died this past Sept. My abuser (stepmother) bought the plot for his burial. Since she purchased it, it belongs to her. She hasnt even kept flowers or anything out. When we (my sister,me and grandmother) leave anything she steals it. All I want is for me and my sister to be able to put out a headstone. But she'd protest it and maybe destroy it. It isn't fair! She didn't care about him in life!! All she did was make our life hell and threaten to f'n kill us. Why does she care??!?!? Why does she STILL want us to suffer. I hate her. I wish maybe she'd go away for ever and let my family grieve in peace. Its not fair!