I am not qualified to say much re the medical vs. the spiritual aspect.
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He still can make (periodic) mean jokes at my expense, he is still periodically or frequently controlling of me, and sometimes he blames me for things that I am not responsible for.
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is not okay in a loving, respectful, relationship.
It is not acceptable to treat your partner like this. So, if you want to stay with him, he really ought to work on how he communicates with, and ultimately in how he treats, you.