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Originally Posted by alittlelikemusic
I agree with Roxanne.
1) You were definitely assaulted there and your male friend was an ***.
2) Your thoughts and emotions were completely justified. No one has any right to go grabbing onto someone they don't know like that. What you did was right, and your friend sounded like she was naive.
3) Like Roxanne said, it's strange that she felt the need to keep bringing this up. I'm sure she has lost or misplaced things before. It's always annoying when people act in such a hypocritical way. She probably would have reacted the same way had it been her necklace.
4) What your husband's mother did was not okay. It's good that you cut her off. She sounded manipulative.
Often times "HSP" aren't as sensitive as they think they are. They've just been through so much ******** that they become good detectors when people act out of line. My family, my mother especially, thinks I'm "too sensitive." It's true. I'm sensitive to lying, manipulative behavior and people overstepping their boundaries. People don't like to be called out on their behavior. When you're too good at it, it pisses them off.
There's nothing wrong with you. You're fine. Just be wary of who you get involved with. People like that actually go looking for people they think are sensitive. Like Roxanne said, they make easy targets. We're like magnets for this behavior and it can be frustrating.
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My male friend was an ***! He really hurt me! I'll talk more about him in another post soon and that night. He was always nice to me until that night! I think that he took out a lot of his frustration out on me. I never thought he'd treat me like that.
My second friend thought she knew it all. See my response to Roxanne. She didn't apparently. And and the friend who repeated herself loved to judge me and she tried hard to try to control me acting like she was trying to help me. I think that she was jealous of me since she lives at home and I don't have to work hard like she does.
As for my MIL< see my previous response to Roxanne again. I think that she was upset that her son didn't marry someone from their country. What an evil woman! I regret not calling the cops in all but three of these situations.
I agree with what you said. I call people out on their crap when they do it. I don't care if that upsets them. They should know better. Especially as adults in the 40-80 plus range!
I don'[t understand why they'd try to control me. I was nice to them until them showed me their ugly side. Is it possible that I never saw the real them? Are there any red flags that I can look out for to avoid abusive freaks like them in the future? Not be open and vulnerable and taking my time in getting to know people a lot better over time is the only thing I can think of.
I'd appreciate any advice or other insight you can share with me.