@Breaking Dawn,

i have not yet. i know i need to - part of it is just the grieving and the other part is having TOO much going on already. i just don't have the time or energy for the effort. and i'd like to think he can sense the pain/hurt i'm in, so maybe he understands why he's alone (for now). i told my neighbor today that if i didn't find anything, i would take the 2 kittens he has - since he hasn't had any luck finding them a new home. (even though they may not be exactly what i'd be looking for)

thanks for asking though!