Hi Aviza. Sorry your mom is so challenging. It must be tough having to walk through the "minefields"
You may want to wait till you feel better and this has blown over and start helping her again.
I think the use of ultimatums often backfires especially with people that are very insensitive and possibly manipulative. Maybe processing your feelings with a friend might be better than confronting mom. She sounds like she is just trying to get her way. Playing her game may be the only way to finally get closure, but only you can decide.
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