I agree that he is the one who needs therapy, not you. I dont know how you made it 12 years but a 12 year habit or assumption of you holding it together is hard for him to break. After 12 years he hasnt felt the need to make changes so why should this be different? You deserve a partner, not a grown up man child. I think you should move on.
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