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Originally Posted by Have Hope
My suggestion is to stop following your ex on IG and anywhere else. Since he is a liar, he is not to be trusted. I wouldn't text him either or contact him again in any way. Go no contact. Though it's hard to do, and I know how tempting it is to still text or check up on your ex, it's truly for the best, for your mental health and happiness. This too shall pass, as trite as that sounds, it's sooo true. Go no contact and the greater emotional distance you get from this man, the better you will feel.
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Thanks..he blocked me on IG then I blocked him in the event he unblocks me and tries to reach out again when he’s bored or lonely. He knows he lied to me instead of manning up he just blocked me. It’s super hard right now, but I’m not reaching out. He is narcissistic which his former therapist confirmed but said it in a different way...so this is his typical game. Expects me to chase him, apologize, beg him to talk to me. And he always talks to me again but only after I’ve worn myself out emotionally. I’m getting nothing out of this friendship and all it has done is made me feel more and more alienated. Yeah sure he gave mf loads of attention before stuff started to reopen, but as of September 2, our state started reopening more things..I just don’t like feeling like I’m an outsider and he always managed to make me feel like a nobody.