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Originally Posted by Aviza
Because I told her i was done helping her. I've been pushed to the point of exhaustion and had to stay home from work for two days. I don't get paid time off so this will hurt me. But physically i feel better.
I tried to resolve it but she's stubborn, always right, and never accepts responsibility. She thinks she's the perfect mother, was comparing what i did for her to what my 7 year old niece was doing for her.
I told her she owes me an apology for comparing me to a 7 year old. And that if she can't treat me right i won't come over tomorrow. So she said she never wants to see me as long as she lives. Won't add me back to the trust, and the dog i was supposed to inherit will go to her friend.
Frankly I don't really believe it. She's disowned me my entire adult life. 3x. Now 4x. Most of my therapists think i need to cut her out of my life because of how she treats me. But honestly. It's her way or the highway, the woman hates me.
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Making peace with someone who continues to disown you must have been really hard. I wonder why she chooses to behave this way? Why try and cut your own daughter out of your life when that daughter is helping you?

That's very hurtful and destructive behavior on your mother's part. You are a good person for forgiving her and even a bigger person for being able to make peace with her. I think if that had been myself, I would have said, fine, let's cut ties. You have a very good heart.