Thread: Mom disowned me
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Old Sep 11, 2020, 12:45 PM
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Originally Posted by Aviza View Post
Because I told her i was done helping her. I've been pushed to the point of exhaustion and had to stay home from work for two days. I don't get paid time off so this will hurt me. But physically i feel better.

I tried to resolve it but she's stubborn, always right, and never accepts responsibility. She thinks she's the perfect mother, was comparing what i did for her to what my 7 year old niece was doing for her.

I told her she owes me an apology for comparing me to a 7 year old. And that if she can't treat me right i won't come over tomorrow. So she said she never wants to see me as long as she lives. Won't add me back to the trust, and the dog i was supposed to inherit will go to her friend.

Frankly I don't really believe it. She's disowned me my entire adult life. 3x. Now 4x. Most of my therapists think i need to cut her out of my life because of how she treats me. But honestly. It's her way or the highway, the woman hates me.
I'm sorry to hear that. That how my mom treated me up until the day she passed away. Sometimes walking away is the best thing to do which is very difficult to do.
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