once I was accused by the administrator of another website of sending her hateful private messages. I was online at the time, posting to the forum so I couldn't be on the private message feature

it was someone else sending them, pretending to be me.

but she didn't see it that way and banned me from the site. (long friendship finished that way))

another time, I was told that it was because of me that the computers were down (I was apparently sending junk mail to the main server)

but it was someone outside who had hacked in to the network.

do you generally believe life will get better for you?. or this is as good as it gets