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Originally Posted by Have Hope
You have to ask yourself repeatedly: WHY would I bother contacting or following someone who makes me feel like a nobody? What am I getting out of it except for more self punishment, bad feelings and more misery? WHY keep putting your hand to the burner that hurts you again and again and again? You have to stop yourself and ask these questions the next time you are tempted to unblock, reach out, follow or pursue him in any way. It's just plain harmful, and after a while, it's truly masochistic. Please think about what I am saying. GO NO CONTACT for real, and make it permanent. He is NOT worthy of you.
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You’re right he isn’t. He rarely ever asks how I’m doing or feeling but yet he is quick to talk about himself and how he’s going to be a millionaire in a couple months 🙄🙄 I had decided a couple months ago (my friend suggested it) after he had a tantrum and I left super late at night because I couldn’t deal with his drunken behavior, that I would never stay over at his house again ever. I was going to set boundaries..we are not in a relationship, so I’m not going to sleep in the same bed with you. Well, I gave in which I regretted..so here I am. I don’t like feeling weak and powerless