Does she or he ever like make rude jokes or come across as being kind of mean? Mine does sometimes. Often it’s when she’s not feeling good. Last week I mentioned going for a covid test and then awhile later into the session she said “maybe I should go for a covid test.” And I said “you think you have covid?” And she said “no, sorry it was a bad joke.” Another time she had to apologize because she thought something she said sounded mean even though I didn’t take it that way.

Is your therapist ever mean? Do you ever say anything? I just ignore mine unless she’s being real obvious. And even then I just say something like “you seem distracted is something wrong?” Instead of asking why she’s being an asshole to me.