Yeah i don't know about the relationship counseling...we technically aren't even in a relationship anymore so i think that would be a no go.

I know that she had already made plans so i shouldn't have expected her to change them and i didn't want her too...i was just being sensitive cuz i felt like she was ignoring me and she wasn't.

I guess my biggest fear is i've already done the damage and she'll never want to come back with me now.