I do think forgiving those that hurt me is so important. What you said above, simplifies it. It's going to be a long process but it can be done. Just yesterday he called and angered me by trying to shorten the time for me to get out. It's simple we agreed I stay until the end of the lease. Now hes trying to end it sooner, that's fine but he's responsible for this place and his stuff not me. Thanks for your advice guy111