Those so called ‘experts’ are very rude & unprofessional. I think that some of them only cate about the money & that they maybe don’t want to admit that they’re unable to help you.

I’ve been in similar situations as well in the past. You’re not alone. They’re human too with their own biases. I hope that you stopped seeing those so calld professionals.

Why do you think a lot of people take their anger & frustration out on you? I have similar issues as well. I have cut out those people from my life but unfortunately I’m stuck having to deal with my narcissistic parents once in awhile.

Can you give examples of what causes people to become upset with you? Maybe the problem is them & not you. It seems like some people get easily annoyed by people they perceive to be to sensitive.

Also, there are a lot of mean, selfish, & self absorbed people out there. Nice, sensitive, & empathetic people tend to be taken advantage of if they’re not careful.

Sometimes people like you & I are seen as being ‘weak’ and easy prey since we’re quiet & afraid to speak up, or afraid of retaliation for standing up for ourselves.

I stick up for myself a lot more than I used to, but it seems like being quiet & not having anyone who’s willing to stick up for you makes you an easy target for bullies & abusers.

Try to avoid bing around toxic mean people who try to blame you for everything. Some people refuse to acknowledge that they’re the real problem sometimes. It’s easier to blame other people when things go wrong.

As for the flower comment, it could mean that you’re sweet & delicate or fragile. Next time ask people to clarify things when you’re not sure of something.

I’d tell those professionals that they’re wrong & that talking like that to a client is rude & inappropriate. Not to mention unprofessional.

Sometimes people will back off or avoid you if you stand up to them & call them put on their bad behavior.

Don’t let anyone treat you like crap. As long as you stay quiet, they’ll keep on using you as their emotional punching bag.

Trust me on this. My husband no longer treats me as badly as he used to when I told him to not talk to me a certain way. He also stopped annoying me whenI was trying to sleep by annoying him back in the same manner, ha.