I think that maybe he had a hidden agenda when he invited me to go out drinking with him and his g.f after his dad died. He was house bound for along time usually when his dad was alive. He had dementia. He said that he didn't have the heart to put him in a nursing home even though his dad and him didn't get along with each other.

Anyways, things were fine at first. I went out with him a few times briefly to go out to eat and drink near his place for 3 years. I met him on a social media site. He seemed like a genuinely good guy at first. We liked a lot of the same stuff and he didn't seem like he was attracted to me at all.

The funny thing is that one night he told me that he wished that he was single as he missed having sex with lots of women and that he used to be a male slut. He said that he couldn't cheat on his g.f though.

The night we went out bar hopping, he was in a good mood. He even bought me drinks a few times even though he was struggling financially. I should've declined his offer. Anyways, he mentioned wanting to get a hotel once I was there and that I could share a room with him and his .g.f.

I didn't have enough money to get my own room or enough credit to get one. I trusted him, so I agreed to that so we could stay out and have fun. He got really upset when he saw his former business partner outside. He then got pissed at me when this drunk woman at this seedy bar rubbed her boobs on my back. I was to shocked to say anything at first.

They both claimed they didn't see what happened, but my friend told me to take it as a compliment. I wanted to leave then. I should've had the manager kick out that weird woman instead. He got mad at me for interrupting his pool game and he yelled at me. He was really pissed and accused me of ruining his good time over something "silly'.

I got upset at him, but I tried to give him the benefit of the doubt as he was under a lot of stress. That was a mistake. He kept on trying to get me to reveal a secret that I told him to his g.f. She showed no interest in what it was. She was quiet most of the time.

So later on that night we both snapped, He told me that if I was a man that he'd punch me in the face! He went on and on the whole night about how I should tell his g.f what I told him and she showed zero interest in my secret. She was quiet most of the time.

They left me at the last bar when I went to the bathroom. I didn't know the area or anyone there and I drank to much to drive home. There was no way I wanted to tell my husband what happened as he'd blame me for everything and I shouldn't have agreed to even share a room with them.

So I had no choice but to sleep in my car in an empty parking lot. At one point a guy approached me car and knocked on my window. He was holding a gas container. I screamed and honked my horn and he went away.

My friend didn't bother calling me, texting me, or emailing me to see if I got home OK or not. He never apologized for a thing. I told him about that weird guy and he told me it's a safe area and he didn't even mention a thing about that guy or that woman in the bar.

He told me that I ruined a fun night and pissed him and his g.f off and that he said he noticed that I got the most expensive drink on the menu and that I was being "picky' because I didn't want a certain item in my drink.

He then used some of my personal information against me. I take medication for depression and anxiety. I also took some digestion pills at dinner. He then accused me of popping pills and doing drugs at the table!

He used to have two abusive ex g.f's who abused a lot of pills, so I think that he has a real bias against pills no matter what they're for. I was really hurt and angry that he'd treat me that way! He told me many times in the past that he's not a sleazebag, but I no longer believe that.

I was so upset at having my boundaries violated and at the fact that my personal safety was of no concern to him, that I ended our friendship. I mostly knew him through emails over the years.

Did it sound like he never thought of me as a real friend and that he was just biding his time like some guys do? He told me that being friends with me was like being in a relationship without the benefits.

I've never been good at reading most people, especially guys, so I'd appreciate and insight into why he acted the way that he did towards me.