I definitely know sarahsweets, that this forgiveness is for my sake, not his. He deserves nothing from me, yet he's ready to take whatever is worth money that I helped him pay for. I don't care anymore. Its material. What he stole from me is my heart, my love, but not my life. He was abusive, he's proven he's not trustworthy. He will have to clean this place out. I've done enough. Now he says he doesn't want his dishes. Then I say you deal with it. I'm so done and I'm glad. I will only forgive for my own peace of mind.