@divine1966, my understanding is his issue is she wore a more revealing dress out with her girlfriends than the dress she wore on their honeymoon. He is not upset about her going out with girlfriends. He is upset about the reoccurring issue that his wife frequently seeks and needs sexual attention from other men. This has been an ongoing issue since his first thread. I never got that he was controlling of her in any way or that he doesn't fully trust her. What I get is that it is hurtful and insulting that she needs all this other attention and does things to get it from men, and particularly single men when she is a married woman. And the dress on her evening out with girlfriends is just another instance of this.