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Aside from the emotional issues the OP mentioned, I’m not sure I understand what bothers you about her dressing up. I love to dress up. I love to wear dresses and I love makeup and looking good because it makes me feel good. Undoubtedly I’ve had days that started out very bleak but then I’ve fixed myself up and worn a pretty dress and my whole attitude changed. I like to look nice for me. When I do go out without my husband I’ll wear whatever I want to. I don’t intentionally try and be sexy. Sometimes the dresses I wear have plunging necklines. Sometimes they are on the shorter side. I do not crave attention from other men or want to be the center of attention wherever I go. I’m not talking about all the emotional stuff or the fact that the OP can’t talk to his wife, or that he thinks she looked less attractive when they went out vs when she went out with her friends. I’m only talking about the way she chooses to dress.
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