I just recently got out of an abusive relationship and was thinking I had codependency problems all I ever wanted to do is make him happy and lost fight of everything else in my life I stopped going to work and we had been in a relationship for 6 years and even have a child together but the second he looked at me I couldn't get him out of my head and he is in jail right now for domestic battery because he wouldn't stop hurting me it was mostly sexual and I loved that part but when it wasn't I needed help getting away and I'm afraid when he gets out I'll go back to him anyone on here relate or have helpful suggestions?