a lot of people take advantage of my nonjudgemental attitude by asking for support they don't really need

by that I mean, people who say I have this issue, or this problem, then going to me later when I've helped them... actually, I didn't have this issue, I just wanted to talk to you.

but I have also had a lot of genuin people ask me for help.

I have



helped people with their grief

and even helped 1 guy who was worried about his trip to the doctors

I'm never thanked for it, ever

but I like to think that if I had an issue they would talk to me and treat me the same way as I treat them.