actually the police report was for the abuse of our youngest son... his dad abused him during visitation... when the detective was questioning me he asked me why i knew my son was telling the truth... the reason i knew was because of what he had done to me... my ex is telling them that i lied to keep him away from them... which isn't true... i have really mixed emotions about this...because i want my kids to be ok... and would do anything to help with that... but i have to be honest... i feel very exposed.