Hi. I know that I have problems with interpersonal relationships. Sometimes, people react to me as if I've done something horrible, but I'm clueless. Why are they mad at me? Of course, I have bipolar disorder, too, so some of this may criss-cross. Sorry to hear that your life was chaotic when you were young. My life didn't start to get that way until I was about 13. Then my dad would come home, drink and go to sleep after work, leaving me and my sister to cook dinner and do our homework alone. There are other things too, but I don't feel like delving into that here right now.