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Originally Posted by divine1966
Personally I continue going out and doing things with girlfriends and don’t intend to stop just because I am married. I had boyfriends who were jealous. That’s why they are exes. “Revealing” is relative. What is that she is revealing that you don’t want her to reveal? Body parts? Where is the limit of how much you want her to cover up? And why?
Personally I am not a flirty type whatsoever and I have girlfriends for female companionship and friendship and not for flirting lol Some women stop their friendships because they got married and now their husbands became their universe. Some men like it. Not my kind of men. It’s 2020. Not 1820. Women’s place isn’t just in the kitchen bare feet. Maintaining friendships and hobbies and pursuing careers is all important to women nowadays. There is more to life than having a husband
I know you don’t like that she talks to single men a lot, that’s I totally understand. But you don’t like her spending time with women either?
What exactly do you have issue with? How she dresses? Where she goes? I am confused. If you don’t trust your wife, i think marriage is over. If my husband suspected I will cheat, I’d prefer he divorced me. If there is no trust, you have nothing else. You two are just not a good match.
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You are right. Revealing is relative, thats why answering your first questions would be futile.
To answer your other questions, no I don't like the women she hung out with that night. I don't like the women who are single and take a married woman to a bar to go dancing without her husband who would happily go out as a group with them and some guy friends. Women who make plans to go to the movies and somehow mysteriously end up back at the bar. Women who say they are having girls night out and some how other husbands and male cousins, friends, etc. somehow all get the memo except me.
I don't think she's cheating. I think she is putting up a wall and shutting me out.