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Old Sep 15, 2020, 06:06 AM
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Originally Posted by guy1111 View Post
I tried to explain this to my wife now and she has zero sympathy.

I just need a little validation. It's so hard to just sit still and smile and say "have a good night".
You hit the nail on the head - she does as she pleases, no matter how it effects you, and she has zero sympathy for you.

It's either extreme immaturity or narcissism on her part. I cannot diagnose of course, but from all your threads and posts, it does sound a lot like narcissism.

IF it's narcissism, that's very difficult to deal with. There is no resolution with a narcissist. And there is no validation.
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Thanks for this!
guy1111