I do not do anything that causes my husband pain. What I do for happiness is conducive to my marriage and isn’t offensive to my husband, it’s harmless stuff. I don’t do anything questionable or inappropriate. If I enjoyed things that were painful for my husband, it’s very likely we wouldn’t be a good match to begin with.

I don’t believe in marrying people who do things and live life styles that we don’t approve and don’t support. Sure compromise is important but not compromising who you are at your core.

Going dancing and drinking with other men and not telling you details and being dismissive is who she is. It’s not suitable for you and I don’t blame you. It wouldn’t be suitable for me either.