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Old Sep 17, 2020, 01:50 PM
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Originally Posted by bpcyclist View Post
We cannot heal if we cannot forgive ourselves. Why can you not forgive yourself?

I am haunted by patients I could not save. Every day. I tried my hardest. I was good at my job. I blame me.
I have another friend who is haunted by patients he could not save I know you tried your hardest. (and were good at your job). I hope one day you are free from the demon of self blame (''too'' many seem to have the opposite issue, for example, blaming others who do not ''deserve'' that blame, like their young kids grr )

ETA I think part of the ''problem'' can be the issues with

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