it has usually been difficult for me to move on too.

i think if you re the one who chooses to seperate, and let go, it is easier.

i am in a situation where i want to let go and move on, because we are not compatable, but it is so hard after 10 years.

we have to make sure we both land on our feet and make it through this - since it's a later time in our life we are at now, and there are worries about how the other will be without the 'other' -

thinking about it makes me cry but i know, in another year, i will be someplace on my own, where i want to be, near my loved ones (i'm far away now) and healthier alone than unhealthy in a relationship that makes me feel bad about myself, you know?

peace,
night