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Old Sep 17, 2020, 03:05 PM
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Thanks, Guy, on my own situation.

And in reply, maybe your therapist isn't a very good therapist if he/she cannot reflect back to you accurately what you experience with your wife. Sounds like the therapist misses the whole point of what you're going through. A session on good communication styles could be helpful though. Maybe a session on how to listen (i,e, your wife) and validate each other's feelings and viewpoints.
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Thanks for this!
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