I guess you need to figure out if your angst with therapy right now is primarily the teletherapy thing, or if, even if you were meeting with your therapist in person, you feel like you two just aren't able to communicate well.

If it is the teletherapy, is it the video aspect? Would regular phone calls work better than the awkwardness of the whole zoom thing? I know I personally hate video conferencing - give me a regular old phone call any day. It feels more "normal."

But if it is this gut feeling that this therapist and you just don't click in a way that is helpful for you, maybe it is time to explore other therapists. Don't completely stop with this one until you've found a replacement (or until you decide you just don't want/need therapy right now). Maybe when you meet her in person you will have a better feel for the issue. Hope you gain some clarity after meeting her.