Hi Sept.
I took all my brain cells to respond to you tonite.. I hope I can respond to Rapunzel tomorrow.
I guess I was thing of answer one question per post... but maybe that would have gone too long... what you've done is fine, there really were no rules, and your answers seem very insightful and directed. What works for you is right for you.... and the book is never finished

(Can I borrow that Heidu?)
"Our greatest glory is not in never falling, but rising every time we fall." Confucius