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Old Sep 17, 2020, 11:46 PM
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Originally Posted by Skeezyks View Post
I'm sorry I don't think I would have any insight into what your (former) friend's motives may have been in all of this. However to my mind the moral of this story is that, more often than not, booze brings out the worst in people. And it sounds as though it did in your former friend's case. (If you're taking medication for depression & anxiety you shouldn't be drinking anyway.) My suggestion would be to file this experience under "lessons learned" & avoid putting yourself in this kind of situation in the future. I'm glad you made it home safely in the end.
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That's OK. Looking back, I'm almost certain that he was hoping that I'd get drunk enough to let him take advantage of me in the shared hotel room. I'm sure that he's a sex addict.

He has a g.f, but he did tell me he missed dating one time. Alcohol does bring out the worse in some people. It didn't help that he had to sell one of his cars to pay for his dads funeral. He was left with nothing.

I know that I shouldn't drink when I'm taking meds. I made a mistake. I learned my lesson from this mistake. I'll never ever share a room with any man except for my husband of course no matter who they are.

And if I ever become friends with a male in the future, I'll keep certain things to myself and not make myself to vulnerable from now on.