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Old Sep 18, 2020, 12:22 AM
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Originally Posted by RoxanneToto View Post
I think, from what you’re saying, he was biding his time. If I had a platonic male friend, I personally wouldn’t start talking sex with them unless it came up as a general topic, or I developed feelings for them, but I accept that’s probably just me, and others may talk about sex more freely without having a hidden agenda.
I also don’t think it was your fault the night got ruined (I’ve been blamed for this before, wasn’t really my fault either). You didn’t ask that woman to do what she did to you, he really should realise that (unless he was already too drunk to think straight by then? Or maybe he would have blamed you anyway).
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You're probably right about what you said. He sounded like he was a sex addict. What kind of guy says that he loves his g.f but that he misses dating? And he said he used to be a male slut, but that he wouldn't cheat on his g.f.

Weird! It was a bad idea to mention even anything remotely sexual with him. I usually don't do that, but I trusted him. It definitely wan't my fault. He was a real ***** for making a joke about that woman then getting mad at me for how I felt about the situation.

He has a very high tolerance. I suspect he's an alcoholic as he'd always mention drinking and he used to know other alcoholics. He was trying to gaslight me.

I'm almost certain that the idea about the hotel that just came up after a few drinks wasn't for my benefit, but his. His weird g.f was the type who let him do whatever he wanted to do. Maybe he was hoping to take advantage of me later. Ugh!