Quote:
Originally Posted by Have Hope
Maybe it's time to get more real with your friends, confide in them (the ones you may trust more) and let them know who you are and how you're now trying to change. Because perhaps you even made yourself out (in your false facade) to be the victim, when in fact you're most likely the perpetrator.
|
You may be right but I just don't get it. I've never spoken about my relationships because they were either very shallow or, most of the time, they ceased to exist. I’ve been skipping it in conversations while those "NPD's poor friends" were gapping all day long about their achievements in that area. I did not talk about mine because I have an empathy problem and things usually go bad quickly because of it. However, I met some success but again, I’ve chosen not to mention it.
And now when things go very well for me in life, my friends burst out with assumption I have no relationships and start pointing fingers, brimming with useless advices. Does it sound fair to you?