Yes, as I said I thought he might have been drinking. He actually had a can if something in his hand when I opened the door but I froze and couldn't get myself to look at it. I figured it was booze though.

Yes, I thought that too, that he used it (the mail not even addressed to me) as an excuse to talk to me. I did not think "oh, he must be trying to be nice." Again, I didn't let him in.

Rose76, great post and great advice. I take it to heart.

Yeah my landlord has said before "he's so nice, you won't have any trouble with him." So I was going off what they said too. Whatever. I'm not completely pleased with my landlord at this time (due to other things).

And yes 8:30 at night, way too late. Wtf. I thought maybe there was an emergency. Also he knocked and I ignored it. Then he called my name through the door. I was in a different room. Thought maybe something bad in the apt happened.