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Old Sep 21, 2020, 07:38 AM
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Asks me out and than cancels at last minute. Has happened twice. Honestly i can do better, think he's after one thing. Kind of teased him. Sent pics was manic. Now my meds have been increased and that's really out of the question. But he's not getting the message.

How do i proceed? Group is off due to Covid and I don't see him anymore. He's my same age, kind of cute but I found out stuff i don't like about him. Only was going to give him a chance anyway, but now really don't want to. What do i say to him?
All you have to say is, "Thanks, but I'm not interested." You can be direct and honest. If you feel that's too direct, you could always include that it's flattering, but you're not interested. I feel direct is always best, either way.
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