"He's a little ***** when it comes to fighting."

"He took some hard blows to the face last night, but I have bruises around my neck."

"His favorite thing to do is to pin me on the wall with his hands around my neck. "

There's something weird about this post. It almost sounds like you like fighting with him. *shrug* I tend to think people can get addicted to fighting because it's arousing and releasing at the same time, and often leads to honeymooning. Posting about it adds another layer of complexity to that.

Whatever it is, you should get out of that situation for your kids' sake, until you can come to some sort of understanding with your husband and find a way to live in peace without the jealousy/antipathy.