When I began therapy with my current T I felt so let down. The last T I had, we worked together for 6 years and I loved his style of doing therapy. I was very bonded with him and after I'd seen my current T for a couple of months I told my husband that there's no way I'd ever feel really great about her.
It took a while. At least 6 months. But her style began to feel nurturing to me. It felt good. Before I knew it I felt very connected to her. Now, after two years of therapy with her I've stopped feeling the need to compare the 2 therapists. They are such different people, with different styles.
Give it some time, and definitely f2f.
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