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Sep 22, 2020, 03:32 PM
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Originally Posted by WovenGalaxy
My reason for asking was: could it be that this was a misunderstanding / miscommunication? The facts are he generally respects you, you felt nervous by his comment but didn't express that outright, he smiled and there a a possibility that you're assuming he knew you were nervous and was enjoying that. Perhaps there's another explanation for his smile.
Of course, do what you want about this situation. But these are my thoughts.
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You may be right but we have to be realistic. I have a huge deficit in relationships and it’s natural for other males to hold it against me to feel superior. My defense response is that I truly do not care about those guys unless they give me something I want. I knew this particular individual for three years and I don’t have any doubts or regrets about this decision of mine. I’ve already started the silent treatment and I feel both great and broken. Broken because I see how dysfunctional and superficial my relationships are and great because ending them can actually make a change.
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